How to Make Peace: An Introduction
1. How to Make Peace: Love God and Love One Another
2. How to Make Peace: Authority, Rights, Interests
3. How to Make Peace: Habitual Responses to Conflict
4. How to Make Peace: Positions vs. Interests
5. How to Make Peace: Needs, Spiritual vs. Mundane
6. How to Make Peace: Assessing BE, DO, HAVE
7. How to Make Peace: Power, Prestige, Possessions, Pride
8. How to Make Peace: Trap Like Quicksand
9. How to Make Peace: Beginning with Prayer
10. How to Make Peace: God’s Will and the Serpent
11. How to Make Peace: Good and Evil
12. How to Make Peace: The Need to Be Right
13. How to Make Peace: Conflict with the Divine
14. How to Make Peace: False Self Divine Self
15. How to Make Peace: Face Work
16. How to Make Peace: “I Messages”
17. How to Make Peace: The Conflict Narrative
18. How to Make Peace: False Attributions
19. How to Make Peace: Active Listening
20. How to Make Peace: Francis Listens to Gubbio
21. How to Make Peace: The Hostile Party
22. How to Make Peace: Destructive Emotions
23. How to Make Peace: Turning Walls into Bridges
24. How to Make Peace: Unhealed Wounds
25. How to Make Peace: Expectations
26. How to Make Peace: Revenge
27. How to Make Peace: Scarcity
28. How to Make Peace: Power
29. How to Make Peace: Escalation
30. How to Make Peace: Settlement Criteria
31. How to Make Peace: Apology
32. How to Make Peace: Forgiveness
33. How to Make Peace: Destructive Hidden Third Party
34. How to Make Peace: Mediator as Constructive Third Party
35. How to Make Peace: Francis, the Mediator
36. How to Make Peace: Discerning Evil
37. How to Make Peace: Fear and Discernment
38. How to Make Peace: Existential Fear
39. How to Make Peace: False Self
40. How to Make Peace: Contemplative Prayer, Solitude